I am having conflicted feelings.

So next weekend I am going to my family's house.  Initially R said he wanted to go to this concert the same weekend but I made it pretty clear that it would be kind of lame for him to choose a concert over my family.  To be fair I know R loves my family. He always complains about the drive up, but he always ends up having a great time when he's up there.

Recently R took out a loan from his Retirement because we need new furniture. BADLY.   Well there is this great place where you can get really nice furniture at a closeout price.  basically unsold shit goes there. you can get a $1000 couch for $500. the only problem is, it's only open the last weekend of every month (they get their stock at month's end).

That happens to be the weekend we go to Rochester.

So, because Rob has the loan now, we want him to get the furniture NOW.  Otherwise the money will end up getting spent on shit like bills, other amenities and stuff.  

So we decided that he should stay here, get the furniture, and get rid of the old stuff while me and the kids go to Rochester.

But now Im conflicted.

A) I feel like he wants me here to help him pick it out.
B) I feel like my Mom will feel bad he isnt coming
C) I think he feels bad about not going
D) Im worried I wont be able to take his truck (he for some reason thinks he can fit the furniture in it, which he cant...it's too small)


And that's about it.  I think if/when we discuss it further, if we resolve what kind of furniture we want to get, and i know how he's going to transport everything, I will feel better.

Meh...I dont know. I'm weird.